Explore the power of empathy in a 44-minute conference talk that delves into its practical applications for software developers and beyond. Learn how empathy can be a learnable life skill rather than a mystical power, as the speaker shares personal experiences with burnout, Imposter Syndrome, parenting, and self-care. Discover the core components of empathy and how to apply them in both professional and personal contexts. Gain insights into practical approaches and techniques to enhance empathy skills, optimizing your personal journey towards greater understanding and connection with others. Examine the differences between empathy, sympathy, and agreement, while exploring concepts such as nonviolent communication and mindfulness. Reflect on the importance of listening intently, gaining perspective, and recognizing empathy as a choice in various aspects of life and work.