Explore a thought-provoking keynote address from the International PHP Conference that challenges stereotypes about programmers and offers insights on fostering a more positive tech community. Delve into Jessica Mauerhan's personal journey from being an angry, judgmental know-it-all to embracing compassion, respect, and empathy. Discover how anger and fear contribute to aggressive behavior in the tech industry, manifesting as online negativity and workplace bullying. Learn strategies for transforming attitudes and creating a more inclusive, supportive environment that benefits both individual programmers and the broader tech community. Gain valuable perspectives on personal growth, professional development, and the importance of emotional intelligence in the field of programming.