Explore the concept of "zishunü" (self-combing women) in this thought-provoking TEDxHuangpuWomen talk by author Chen Sicheng. Delve into the idea that accepting our flaws and imperfections can lead to greater peace with ourselves. Discover how this unique Chinese tradition of women choosing independence over marriage relates to modern perspectives on self-acceptance and personal growth. Learn from Chen's insights as a writer and columnist, drawing from her works such as "My Wasted Part of the World" and "A Walk is Tens of Thousands of Miles." Gain a fresh perspective on embracing our vulnerabilities and forging our own paths in life during this 21-minute presentation.