Explore the art of saying 'no' in this thought-provoking 25-minute conference talk from RubyConf 2022. Delve into the challenges of declining invitations, especially for people of color, and learn how to overcome the fear of missing out (FOMO) and the anxiety of disappointing others. Discover valuable insights on recognizing when saying 'no' is crucial for maintaining peace of mind and personal well-being. Gain practical strategies for assertively declining commitments without compromising relationships or professional opportunities.