Explore insights from live and simulated incident response in this conference talk from Circle City Con 2019. Discover the power of simulations as tools for cybersecurity preparedness, starting with visualizing insider threats and outsiders with insider credentials. Learn the importance of designing processes that encourage restraint in initial incident communications. Focus on identifying weaknesses and using accurate threat models. Understand the challenges of balancing quantitative and qualitative aspects of incident response. Gain practical tips on improving your incident response strategies and embracing the inevitability of unplanned events. Compare cybersecurity approaches with resilience-focused methodologies to enhance your organization's preparedness for potential security incidents.