Explore strategies for avoiding an InfoSec Cold War in this 47-minute conference talk from Derbycon 2018. Delve into the challenges faced by Red Teams and the importance of ego suppression in cybersecurity. Learn about the distinction between winning and protecting, as well as the balance between defense and offense. Discover how to focus on improvement rather than victory, and understand the concept of a unified trajectory in InfoSec. Gain insights into the roles of Defense, Red Team, and Blue Team in creating a more collaborative and effective cybersecurity environment.